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Managing Your New Normal: 6 Tips for Navigating Change Effectively

Managing Your New Normal: 6 Tips for Navigating Change Effectively

Change is inevitable. It’s a normal part of everyone’s life. However, there will be times that require more change than usual. The past two years, for example, have introduced a wide range of “new normals.” If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the scope of it all, you’re certainly not alone.

With or without pandemic-related adjustments, you may need some tips and suggestions in the area of navigating change. Such skills are invaluable at the point of change and well into the future. After all, if a change is unavoidable, why not be better prepared? To follow, we’ll explore a few options for settling into your new normal.

Resilience in Children: Why Is It Essential? And How Can Parents Promote It?

Resilience in Children: Why Is It Essential? And How Can Parents Promote It?

If you are the parent of a young child, then you’ve probably already heard of “resilience” or “grit” from articles or podcasts.

Resiliency is all about having the ability to cope when things are challenging.

Whether it’s facing the challenge of an upcoming school project or coping with a family tragedy, resiliency has proven to be invaluable for children.

But why is it essential, and how can parents promote resiliency?

Let’s explore the idea of grit more, and what you can do to teach it to your kids.

Teen Depression vs. Adult Depression: How Is It Different?

Teen Depression vs. Adult Depression: How Is It Different?

It’s unfortunate that the term “depression” gets tossed about so frequently.

People think that they know the signs and symptoms of the condition and apply them to someone they believe is depressed. This approach might be well-meaning if they want that person to get help.

However, the label ignores subtleties about depression that vary between age groups. Adults dealing with depression often experience it differently than a teen.

Remember, depression is beyond feeling sad or blue. Instead, these are specific symptoms that individuals often ignore or mislabel.

Here are some subtle differences between depression in teens and adults.

Normal Teen Moodiness or Something More? How to Know & What to Do

Normal Teen Moodiness or Something More? How to Know & What to Do

It’s standard fare for sit-coms and movies: teen characters shift between laughter, eye rolls, and tears. The parents react with a comical mix of frustration, and concern. And the family rides a roller coaster of emotions, communication issues, and more on the road to their teen’s independence.

So here you are, in real life, trying to helpfully and productively move forward with your own teen. And you don’t have the benefit of a script or laugh track to break the tension created by their changing moods.

Can You Have Both Autism and ADHD?

Can You Have Both Autism and ADHD?

Many are now of the mindset that ADHD should actually be categorized as a subset of autism. While that makes sense, it’s important to remember that—while similar—these are two different things happening in the brain.

Autism is characterized by difficulties with social interaction, trouble with communication, and restricted and repetitive behavior(s). While ADHD also has social and communication factors at play, it’s largely categorized by hyperactivity, impulse control issues, and trouble focusing.

But can you have both ADHD and autism at the same time?

Although some like to think of ADHD as a subset of autism, it is definitely possible for someone to have both conditions. Sometimes, the two can even be confused for one another, especially considering how many overlaps there are.

Does an Age Gap Really Matter? What to Know

Does an Age Gap Really Matter? What to Know

We see age gaps in adult relationships somewhat frequently. For instance, that silver fox actor has a new, younger wife. Often, age gaps between couples are met with suspicion. But why?

Experts believe the taboo nature of age gaps stems from peoples’ assumption that there is a power imbalance in these relationships. It’s believed that one party is reaping far more benefits than the other or that one party is being taken advantage of. Over time, this has become a sense of appropriateness instilled in our culture and passed down.

While an age gap presents its own unique hurdles in adult relationships, they are not automatically a bad thing, so long as both parties are genuinely interested in each other for the right reasons. Let’s look at some of these hurdles and how you can tell an age gap won’t be a problem.

6 Simple Ways to Meet Your Needs and Your New Baby’s Too

6 Simple Ways to Meet Your Needs and Your New Baby’s Too

They may have invented the word “paradox” specifically for this scenario. Your dream has come true. You just had your first baby. Meanwhile… you’ve never felt more stressed or confused in your entire life. How in the world will you balance out all these highs and lows?

You have been tasked with a dual mission. Of course, your top priority is to meet the needs of your new baby. Yet somehow, you cannot and must not neglect your own needs. The goal is not perfection. You won’t always get in right. But, rest assured, you will find ways to make this work.

3 Tips to Mend a Breach of Trust in Your Marriage and Reconnect

3 Tips to Mend a Breach of Trust in Your Marriage and Reconnect

Trust is not always an easy thing to build in a relationship. When you trust someone, you feel comfortable, safe, and secure in your individual life and relationship. Though it takes time to build this trust, the sense of security makes it all worthwhile. Because trust is such a delicate thing, it can be detrimental to a relationship when it’s broken. Many couples struggle to reestablish trust in their relationship once a breach occurs and ultimately choose to go their separate ways.

While a breach of trust can be difficult to work through, it doesn’t mean that your relationship is doomed. If you want to make your relationship work after a breach of trust, there are three keys to focus on to help reconnect and reestablish trust.

Talking About Puberty: The Most Important Topics to Review with Your Child

Talking About Puberty: The Most Important Topics to Review with Your Child

As with so many things, talking about puberty with your kids is essential to do ahead of time. It’s all too easy to put it off or avoid talking about it altogether.

But your kids are never too young for simple, age-appropriate discussions about their bodies. Like it or not, kids often begin hearing about sex from classmates in early elementary school.

Even if you feel awkward, introducing necessary physiological information when they’re toddlers and preschoolers builds a foundation for the future.

What to Do If the Pandemic Brought Key Relationship Problems to Your Attention

What to Do If the Pandemic Brought Key Relationship Problems to Your Attention

When the pandemic started, most of the focus was on the victims of the virus. Time passed and lockdowns ensued. We then talked more and more about other forms of fallout. From economic crises to political division, the collateral damage spread. Now, here we are, well over a year later.

Assessing the cost of Covid-related actions has expanded into the realm of our collective emotional health. More specifically, months of uncertainty put some major stress on all of our relationships. Many of us are realizing that the pandemic pressure we endured brought some deeper relationship issues bubbling to the surface.

Prepared for Parenthood: What to Know & How to Plan

Prepared for Parenthood: What to Know & How to Plan

Parenting is quite a paradox. So, so many people do it. Yet, very few ever appear to be prepared for what it entails. This might be because entering parenthood is as life-changing as it gets. How does one fully plan to have everything turned upside down?

You’ll have less money, time, privacy, sex, energy, sleep, and more. Meanwhile, you will be presented with more responsibility than you may ever face in your entire life. So yeah, it sounds daunting but this does not mean you can’t be as ready as possible. You’ll need teamwork, commitment, and self-awareness to make that happen.

Uniquely Woman: Inspiration for Finding a Strength All Your Own

Uniquely Woman: Inspiration for Finding a Strength All Your Own

“I am woman, hear me roar.”

Helen Reddy caused quite a stir when she released that song in 1971. Unfortunately, in 2021 – 40 years later, women are still fighting for equality in everything from the workplace to relationships.

While it might be easier to be a woman today than in the past, there are still inequalities that can make everyday life feel overwhelming at times. That has lead to some women trying to carry themselves more like men, rather than embracing their unique womanhood.

The reality is, women won’t be seen as equals if they’re changing their habits to be more like their male counterparts.

Instead, it’s important to focus on finding your strength on your own, as a woman.

If you’re finding that to be easier said than done, find things that inspire you to boost that strength.

6 Ways to Relieve Built-Up Stress During Home Renovations

6 Ways to Relieve Built-Up Stress During Home Renovations

The walls have been stripped down to the studs, the kitchen is an explosion of pipes and wires, and let’s not even get started with the bathrooms!

The words “remodeling your home” and “stress” seem to go hand-in-hand.

Remodeling is certainly a big commitment, both in time and finances. Plus you never quite know what to expect when you strip your house to the bones. There could be mold, insects, dry rot, etc.

However, managing your remodeling stress is not much different than other kinds of stress. Only this time you have sledgehammers!

What You Can Do to Maximize Your Teletherapy Sessions

What You Can Do to Maximize Your Teletherapy Sessions

As the country vacillates between re-opening and re-closing, we’re all getting more and more comfortable with long-distance communication. Work, school, social time, etc. — it’s a time to re-invent our interactions in the name of safety and physical health. But it’s also a time when our mental health may feel threatened in new ways. In an age of social distancing and conflicting agendas, how can we take safe steps to guard both our physical and mental wellbeing? The answer is “teletherapy.”

No Communication or Closure? Coping with the Ambiguous Loss of a Parent

No Communication or Closure? Coping with the Ambiguous Loss of a Parent

Except for specific cases, you can’t know in advance when your parents will no longer be with you. Life is unpredictable. It doesn’t follow a script and sure pays no mind to our expectations. Thus, many of us will end up having to cope with the ambiguous death of a parent. It might be that you became estranged. Perhaps you were still in touch but had left so much unsaid. In either instance — along with countless other scenarios — you will be left with a wide array of loose ends.

How do you manage such a frustrating situation?

Divorce and Your Mental Health: Tips for Handling the Effects of Stress

Divorce and Your Mental Health: Tips for Handling the Effects of Stress

Pop culture has taught us all a very particular perspective on divorce. It usually involves lots of screaming, mixed with the silent treatment. It all leads up to a climactic confrontation followed by a lifetime of animosity. Of course, this cinematic image does very little justice to a complicated and nuanced experience. It also neglects to even hint at the inevitable toll the stress of divorce takes on our mental health. This isn’t about he said/she said or which spouse was “right.” Divorce of any kind is stressful and requires its participants to take steps to safeguard their mental health.

Take These Steps to Finally Start Recovering from Your Traumatic Childhood

Take These Steps to Finally Start Recovering from Your Traumatic Childhood

Try as you might, you cannot change the past. However, you can recover from it. This is essential and encouraging news for the many adults who were traumatized in their childhood. Those terrible experiences often create lingering psychological scars. Your adult life may even be hampered by an anxiety problem like post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Until you are able to facilitate healing from your childhood trauma, you may find yourself unable to manage the daily challenges that life throws at you. Fortunately, through a blend of self-help and professional guidance, healing is very much possible.

COVID and Your Connection: Signs Your Relationship is Suffering

COVID and Your Connection: Signs Your Relationship is Suffering

When the time comes that we’re finally able to tally up the total cost of COVID-19, there will be one category that will likely get ignored: relationships.

The diverse and relentless impact of this pandemic is wreaking havoc on our collective mental health. This reality creates a treacherous terrain for couples from coast to coast. Stress, in general, is challenging to your connection and 2020 is fast becoming ground zero for stress. How can you recognize this trend and what can you do about it?

Normal Teen Moodiness or Something More? How to Know & What to Do

Normal Teen Moodiness or Something More? How to Know & What to Do

It’s standard fare for sit-coms and movies: teen characters shift between laughter, eye rolls, and tears. The parents react with a comical mix of frustration, and concern. And the family rides a roller coaster of emotions, communication issues, and more on the road to their teen’s independence.

So here you are, in real life, trying to helpfully and productively move forward with your own teen. And you don’t have the benefit of a script or laugh track to break the tension created by their changing moods.

Resilience in Children: Why Is It Essential? And How Can Parents Promote It?

Resilience in Children: Why Is It Essential? And How Can Parents Promote It?

If you are the parent of a young child, then you’ve probably already heard of “resilience” or “grit” from articles or podcasts. Resiliency is all about having the ability to cope when things are challenging. Whether it’s facing the challenge of an upcoming school project or coping with a family tragedy, resiliency has proven to be invaluable for children.