Sometimes, divorce is the best solution for a couple. But if children are involved, a “best solution” can still be a daunting and potentially traumatic experience. Children of all ages can recognize when their parents are in conflict. This creates stress for everyone involved. For the kids, it may also provoke confusion, guilt, shame, fear, and anger.
Even in a “best solution” scenario, divorce is not easy for anyone involved. But this does not mean the children cannot get through the experience in a healthy manner. It requires commitment, diligence, and hard work, but children can do more than just cope with divorce. They can move forward and thrive.